Stop being a victim and step into your power!
I’m calling you out! It’s time to stop being a victim and step into your power!
Part of my healing journey was shifting from being a victim to stepping into my power.
By stepping into my power I mean allowing myself to be fully myself. That means accepting every part of who I am, the good and the bad. That meant choosing something better for myself and realizing that I had the power to choose my thought and my beliefs. When I made a conscious choice to be me, quirky, spiritual, a rule breaker, I was able to take action to achieve my goals because I no longer cared what other people thought.
For a long time I played the victim, I blamed everyone else for making me small. It was my parents fault or my partners fault or the worlds fault because they didn’t accept me for who I was. The truth was I didn’t accept me for who I was. Because when I did, I no longer cared what they thought, I knew what I was capable of and nothing was going to stand in my way.
I’m now living my life being 100% me and doing exactly what I want to be doing and I am successful doing it, because I believe in it!
It may be difficult, but if you keep blaming everyone else for where you aren’t, it’s time to take a look at yourself. Are you accepting yourself for who you are? Are you taking responsibility for your thoughts and beliefs? What is blocking you from taking that next step toward your goals? Are you aligning yourself with people who are going to support you?
Take a chance and share what your struggling with, you never know who might be available to help shed some light. Part of being you is being vulnerable and sharing your wins and your struggles, you don’t have to pretend to be perfect.